The Benefit

I have been wondering lately whatever happened to giving people the benefit of the doubt? I realize that it is easier to doubt than believe. I know we have seen leaders, friends, family members, co-workers, neighbors do the worst, say the worst, and act the worst. So it is certainly easier just to believe the worst . . . and you know what . . . most of the time we are probably right. Most people don't do right. Most people don't act right. However, I just remember a time when we believed in the good in people. I am certainly not one of those who beats the "don't judge" drum! I am more convinced than ever that we have become extremely slack in exercising judgement and discernment, but we used to reserve judgement until we knew the facts. Now we just right people off instantly. If a person has been faithful, diligent, conscientious, and honest for years shouldn't that count for something? If a person has done everything in their power to operate above board and with integrity shouldn't they get some credit? I was once told "Don't expect anything from anyone and you won't be disappointed". What a terrible way to live. What a terrible way to be treated. I want you to expect good from me. I want you to expect me to be honest. I want you to expect me to be a hard worker. I want you to expect me to tell the truth! Why? Because that is what I expect from you! Let's give each other the benefit of the doubt again. When you hear a bad report or a rumor, stop, extend grace, derail the gossip train, find out the truth, and then make a judgement. I am sure this is a better way to live. I am sure this is the way I want to live.

How about you? Do you give people the benefit of the doubt? Any thoughts?